MommaCat Monday Missive #1: On the Importance of Play

Greetings!

One of the perks of membership in the Bold Kitten Community is that you have access to my Guide, Lady Coco.

So now seems like a good time to introduce her and explain why having contact with her is a Good Thing.

Lady Coco is a Soul & a Guide, by which I mean that she is an pan-dimensional being who chooses to help out physical plane beings such as humans. And in her case, she has had lives here on Earth, both as human and other, most notably for our purposes here as a Siamese cat named Coconut.

Coconut was a Lilac-point Siamese ex-show-cat, who was well aware that humans found her beautiful.

For those who remembered to follow Earth-cat Protocol, she was friendly, tho’ not familiar.

To those who did not, she had a long memory and short patience.

For us, however, she treated us with a combination of friendliness and the demand to be adored & pampered, which Mike & I were quite happy to go along with.

I fell hard and when she died after a long illness (before her final illness, she’d had at least one extension granted from Elsewhere), I was devastated to say the least. :>

I spent several years after that in pain & depression from losing her, from losing my Mom, from losing our other kitty, Simba, all in a span of about six months.

I’m not remembering now exactly how it happened, that time is a bit of a blur, but I do remember two things: one, I was told that I would see Coconut again within a couple of years and two, I learned to channel.

I knew she was there as a Guide from before I took formal classes, as I requested her for my first formal Guide.

And things went on from there to here.

One other quick thing before I turn things over to Lady Coco: Coconut as a show-kitty was a momma-cat. :>

So when it comes to kittens, she knows her stuff! :-D :>

Kitten Exploring

Photo by: gracey @ mF

Question: What qualities of a bold kitten should humans attempt to emulate?

Lady Coco: The qualities of a kitten, bold or otherwise, that it is helpful to emulate are first & foremost those of Play.

They are not afraid to make mistakes, to look silly, to do something wrong.

They go out, they try something. If they succeed, great.Sometimes there is no-one more surprised than they when they succeed.

If they don’t succeed, they get up, they try again.

No big deal.

They don’t worry about how others will perceive them. (They save that for later in life. As do humans. Something to think about. Can you preserve that childlike desire to Explore?)

They don’t beat themselves up for not getting it right the first time. (Tho’ they do occasionally let their tails start things, but that’s another show. :-D )

They maintain an attitude of Play.

Everything is a Game.

Everything is a potential toy.

EVERYTHING! :-D

(yes, indeed, I am speaking a little bit in my former-to-you role as a physical-plane MommaCat.)

Play is Serious Business to them.

They play, they experiment, to learn the Necessary Skills to be a successful cat, a successful predator

If they don’t learn these skills, they die. (Or they would if they were out in the Wild, where a kyoot kitten face will not get them a full food bowl. :-D )

But they don’t go to school for eight hours a day, sitting up straight and listening to a teacher.

No, they play games with their siblings and with their momma’s tail and they follow her around and learn what she knows to do.

You can learn a lot from that.

Take your learnings as Serious Business that can be accomplished through Play.

Play can be Very Hard Work, as you know. But it is so enjoyable that the work involved is not a burden.

Keep that flexibility that allows you to fail & try again, take the chance of looking foolish, and remain mobile enough in your thinking to look at things from as many sides as it takes to figure them out.

And finally, be bold! :-)

Stick your paw into new things. It’s okay to be cautious if you feel you need to be. Take the time you need to take.

But do it! :>

That’s your Missive for today! :-D

Best Blessings!
-Lady Coco

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Bold Kitten Book of Days: Walking in Two Worlds

Greetings!

No-one is of just one Nature.

We all have many Working Parts.

The trick is to bring them into a harmonious Balance, where each part can work together for the good of the whole.

You may be wondering, as I have done over these past few days, how it is that a Bird is becoming the leader of a flock of Kittens.

Think Griffin.

A Griffin is an animal which is part Cat & part Bird. :>

And because of this dual Nature, the Griffin understands both.

While I am predominately Bird in my tendencies, I know too, what it is like to be Cat, so I walk in both worlds.

The Griffin is a fantastic beast, one which does not (yet) occur in Nature.

However, we can learn a lot from Griffin on how to handle a dual Nature and walk simultaneously in seemingly incompatible Worlds.

Bold Kitten Question of the Day: Are there places where you walk in two worlds at once? How can you use the powers of Griffin to help you do so with more ease and grace?

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Bold Kitten Book of Days – Beginnings

Greetings!

Begin.

Begin where you are.

Don’t wait for the perfect time.

There is no such thing.

There is only now.

This present moment.

And that is enough.

So POUNCE! :-D

Kittens are never still. From the moment they are born, they are on the move.

Stirring from one place to another at the Milk Bar, to leaving the nest on toddle-y legs, to finding the nearest source of trouble and heading towards it with all possible speed, kittens are on the move.

They do not wait to determine the Proper Time.

They do not stop to consider all the minute consequences of their Actions.

They simply go.

There’s something to be learned in that.

There is a time for planning, yes.

But there is also a time to simply go with your gut instinct, that innermost place of Power & Knowing.

Take a leap of faith & let go.

And POUNCE!!! :-D

The sales page went live today.

I have some good feedback.

I feel good about taking action.

And I even have some good ideas on What to Do Next.

It’s time.

It’s time to come out of the closet.

It’s time to leave the nest.

It’s time to fly!

It’s time to POUNCE! :-)

Bold Kitten Question: What are you doing today to begin your Journey to getting your Idea out into the world? :>

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